Author, Advocate, Speaker and Coach
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About the Author
One Woman's Journey from Silence to Strength
Lyndal Ash—a name chosen not by chance, but by necessity. This pen name, born of courage and a desire for privacy, reflects the quiet need for safety. Beneath it lives a woman whose journey has been shaped by resilience, faith, and the relentless pursuit of healing from domestic abuse.
As the eldest of three, Lyndal was raised in a home guided by a strong moral compass and a rhythm of wholesome living. From the outside, her world seemed serene—rooted in tradition and framed by values. But behind closed doors, shadows lingered. Emotional wounds and hidden abuse carved silent scars into her childhood.
After her parents’ turbulent divorce, Lyndal clung to the anchors that remained: her faith, her childhood sweetheart, and the steady pulse of her career. For a time, life felt calm. However, grief came like a storm with the sudden loss of her beloved mother—“Mama One”—whose absence left a hollow echo in her heart. As sorrow deepened, her marriage unraveled, and the foundations she once trusted began to crack.
Then came John—charming, radiant, and full of promise. What seemed like a new beginning slowly revealed itself as another chapter of pain. The domestic violence was not loud or obvious; it crept in quietly through manipulation and control, trapping Lyndal in a web of coercive control that lasted eight long years.
After heart-wrenching years go by, she broke free. Her escape was not dramatic; it was deliberate, courageous, and built on years of quiet planning, a stroke of luck, and the unwavering love of a few trusted souls. Her story is deeply personal yet heartbreakingly universal, shedding light on the often-hidden world of surviving abuse.
To illuminate the darkness, Lyndal as penned a poignant mini memoir that weaves together themes of grief, survival, and transformation. While names have been changed, the truth remains: raw, real, and resonant.
Through her words, Lyndal casts light on the quiet cruelty of coercive control—a form of domestic abuse that isolates, manipulates, and leaves invisible scars. She inspires change: for education, for empathy, and for systems that truly support survivors.
Her hope is simple yet profound—that her story will help others see the signs, speak their truth, and begin their own journey toward healing.
